Complicated used to be just a word in the dictionary,
indecision was pointless,
Unnecessary evil.
A necessary evil now...
the wrong decisions looming in the foreground.
Worry makes us look as old as we sometimes feel.
We all become fraudulent seers,
predicting our own futures with little accuracy...
does it matter?
Does the time spent worrying make the poor outcome okay?
Will the time spent even help in the end?
And pray the end comes soon...
but worry for a while.
Just in case.
Ultimately
the only wrong decisions
are those that need no worrying;
mean well, do no harm, live and let live.
The simplicity of childhood remains;
Indecision is unnecessary.
No mistakes are made; no gray area...
Just deliberate wrong decisions
not made for the faint of heart,
but by the faint of heart.













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Most of the big things in life aren't really choices for those of us who have consciences, but sometimes the small stuff can have large rammifications, and sometimes you only ever get to choose between two bad outcomes.
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Donate 20 grains of rice playing a word game... it's addictive
"Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much." -Blaise Pascal.
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Homophobia: The irrational fear that gays will break in and re-arrange your furniture against your will.
Love: The sudden realization that somebody other than you is real.
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Donate 20 grains of rice playing a word game... it's addictive
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"If I ever caught a 'social disease' I can think of no one else I would rather catch it off." @littlefishey
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Donate 20 grains of rice playing a word game... it's addictive
"Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much." -Blaise Pascal.
In many cases, the close calls you're discussing here are the ones that could go either way—and as such, they're not likely to tip the balance of a person's personality in and of themselves. (Though you can't factor out the butterfly effect: What if one's chosen vacation destination, for example, leads to a romance that obviously couldn't have happened had they gone somewhere else?)
Whereas the easy decisions are easy precisely because the imbalance between those costs have already been estimated well in advance. If I despise the opera, deciding to pass up even free tickets isn't much of a brainer.
So your contention that the easy decisions determine who we are could well be turned on its head: who we are determines which decisions are easy.
The prosecution reserves the right to call rebuttal witnesses, but otherwise rests.
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Donate 20 grains of rice playing a word game... it's addictive
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